Revenged Love in real life? Lead actor Ziyu accused of double-dating scandal by ex-girlfriend; star issues apology as scandal engulfs
Karen Noronha | Jul 25, 2025, 11:50 IST
( Image credit : Identifying herself as "Paris Li", she dropped bombshell allegations, claiming she dated Ziyu in 2023. Credit: Weibo )
The scandal has ignited a firestorm across social media, leaving fans and viewers reeling as yet another controversy rocks the cast of Revenged Love. The actor responded hours later on his official Weibo account, issuing a formal apology.
The Chinese BL drama Revenged Love has been in the spotlight for its gripping storyline, and fans have been loving it as new episodes continue to drop across platforms. However, alongside the growing praise and popularity, the drama has also found itself entangled in a string of scandals and controversies. Currently stealing the spotlight is lead actor Ziyu, who is now embroiled in a swirling controversy involving infidelity, emotional manipulation, and a very public fallout.
On July 24, a Weibo user identifying herself as "Paris Li" dropped bombshell allegations, claiming she dated Ziyu in 2023. According to her account, their relationship began after meeting at a clothing store where Ziyu confessed his feelings, assuring her he was single.
Their romance quickly soured after Paris discovered that Ziyu had been in a secret relationship with his manager for two years. After confronting him, the couple briefly broke up - only for Ziyu to return with promises that his past relationship was over. Believing him, Paris gave the relationship another chance.
However, Paris claimed that out of nowhere she was abruptly blocked on all platforms, with no explanation. She alleges that Ziyu ghosted her after rekindling things with his manager, cutting off all contact without closure.
Paris then went on to post a detailed account of her experience online - complete with intimate photos as evidence - and demanded a public apology.
The scandal has ignited a firestorm across social media, leaving fans and viewers reeling as yet another controversy rocks the cast of Revenged Love. The actor responded hours later on his official Weibo account, issuing a formal apology and announcing that he would be suspending all public activities indefinitely.
"Hello, everyone. This is Ziyu. I've seen the post circulating online today. I’m truly sorry that everyone had to witness this, and even more sorry to you, @Paris梨li. You’re in pain, and it saddens me that you had to come to me in this way.
I admit that in the past period of time, due to a very intense work schedule and immense pressure - combined with my poor way of dealing with emotional and personal matters - I created serious communication problems between us. It made you feel abandoned and unable to reach me. That was entirely my fault. I should have - and must - learn to handle our relationship and communicate with you more effectively.
The end of our relationship was a decision made while we were both emotional and irrational. I respect her feelings and choices. However, I bear undeniable responsibility for the pain caused by the breakup, and I sincerely apologize to her again.
Regarding the communication with staff that she mentioned, I’ve reviewed the internal situation as quickly as possible. There were indeed misunderstandings. But regardless of the details, the fact that she was made to feel abandoned - and forced to go public - stems directly from my failure to properly handle our private matters.
I feel deep guilt and self-blame. I will ask my team to handle anything related to my personal affairs with more professionalism and care moving forward.
I can't deny that in the final stage of the relationship, my avoidance, lack of communication, and irresponsible behavior caused her deep, irreparable harm. I didn’t have the courage to face her or the situation. I chose the worst way out.
As for the specific things that happened between us, I believe that arguing in public will only cause more damage. But I fully admit that the way I handled the end of our relationship was a failure and wrong. I take full responsibility.
This statement is not made out of pressure, but from genuine self-reflection. I acknowledge my mistakes and believe I must face them head-on. In the future, I will strive to be a more mature, responsible, and communicative person. I will learn and grow from this difficult experience.
In addition, once my current work obligations are fulfilled, I will suspend public activities for a while to reflect, stabilize myself, and learn how to better balance my work and life - as well as how to manage relationships more maturely.
Finally, I want to express my deepest apologies to her again. I also want to apologize to all the fans, friends who care about me, and everyone who's been paying attention to this matter. I'm truly sorry for the disappointment. I will do my best to correct myself and start anew. Thank you, everyone."
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On July 24, a Weibo user identifying herself as "Paris Li" dropped bombshell allegations, claiming she dated Ziyu in 2023. According to her account, their relationship began after meeting at a clothing store where Ziyu confessed his feelings, assuring her he was single.
Did Ziyu lie to 'Paris Li' about his dating life?
Their romance quickly soured after Paris discovered that Ziyu had been in a secret relationship with his manager for two years. After confronting him, the couple briefly broke up - only for Ziyu to return with promises that his past relationship was over. Believing him, Paris gave the relationship another chance.
However, Paris claimed that out of nowhere she was abruptly blocked on all platforms, with no explanation. She alleges that Ziyu ghosted her after rekindling things with his manager, cutting off all contact without closure.
Paris then went on to post a detailed account of her experience online - complete with intimate photos as evidence - and demanded a public apology.
Ziyu responds to the allegations
The scandal has ignited a firestorm across social media, leaving fans and viewers reeling as yet another controversy rocks the cast of Revenged Love. The actor responded hours later on his official Weibo account, issuing a formal apology and announcing that he would be suspending all public activities indefinitely.
"Hello, everyone. This is Ziyu. I've seen the post circulating online today. I’m truly sorry that everyone had to witness this, and even more sorry to you, @Paris梨li. You’re in pain, and it saddens me that you had to come to me in this way.
I admit that in the past period of time, due to a very intense work schedule and immense pressure - combined with my poor way of dealing with emotional and personal matters - I created serious communication problems between us. It made you feel abandoned and unable to reach me. That was entirely my fault. I should have - and must - learn to handle our relationship and communicate with you more effectively.
The end of our relationship was a decision made while we were both emotional and irrational. I respect her feelings and choices. However, I bear undeniable responsibility for the pain caused by the breakup, and I sincerely apologize to her again.
Regarding the communication with staff that she mentioned, I’ve reviewed the internal situation as quickly as possible. There were indeed misunderstandings. But regardless of the details, the fact that she was made to feel abandoned - and forced to go public - stems directly from my failure to properly handle our private matters.
I feel deep guilt and self-blame. I will ask my team to handle anything related to my personal affairs with more professionalism and care moving forward.
I can't deny that in the final stage of the relationship, my avoidance, lack of communication, and irresponsible behavior caused her deep, irreparable harm. I didn’t have the courage to face her or the situation. I chose the worst way out.
As for the specific things that happened between us, I believe that arguing in public will only cause more damage. But I fully admit that the way I handled the end of our relationship was a failure and wrong. I take full responsibility.
This statement is not made out of pressure, but from genuine self-reflection. I acknowledge my mistakes and believe I must face them head-on. In the future, I will strive to be a more mature, responsible, and communicative person. I will learn and grow from this difficult experience.
In addition, once my current work obligations are fulfilled, I will suspend public activities for a while to reflect, stabilize myself, and learn how to better balance my work and life - as well as how to manage relationships more maturely.
Finally, I want to express my deepest apologies to her again. I also want to apologize to all the fans, friends who care about me, and everyone who's been paying attention to this matter. I'm truly sorry for the disappointment. I will do my best to correct myself and start anew. Thank you, everyone."
For more news and updates from the world of OTT, and celebrities from Bollywood and Hollywood, keep reading Indiatimes Entertainment.